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Hot Women & Social CirclesSo I was with friends, and a hot chick started talking to me. As expected, their jaws dropped and they asked me how I knew the girl. If you must know, I use to date her close friend (also hot, btw). I wouldn't even be writing about this, unless my boys didn't ask me how I knew a hot chick everytime one approaches and talks to me. So I guess it's time to break it down: First and foremost, you guys have to understand that dating hot women isn't difficult at all. You guys make it difficult on yourselves. I think the majority of the guys reading this assume that in order to pick up a hot chick, you have to do the random approaches in bars and on the streets. Looking for Foreign Brides? Try these links: Thailand Pretty Brides Mexican Women Poland brides Seeking Men Czech Mail Order Brides Kazan Single Brides Indonesian Brides Online Take a guess as to where the majority of my drop dead gorgeous women come from. Neither the bar nor the street. Just about all of them come from within my various social circles. Provided that you are an attractive guy, it is MUCH easier to pull hot women from your social circle than it is from random encounters (even if those random encounters are a result of eye contact). Why is this? OK, place yourself in the mind of a single hot chick. What sounds like the safer choice, a random guy in a bar that you're unsure about, or a guy within your social circle that your friends already approve of to some extent or another? The very fact that you are even friends with her and her friends, is enough for her to assume that you are safe and that you have a few things in common. In addition, a woman's social circle is her most important asset, in her eyes. And if her social circle approves of you, then it is likely that she will too. Are you seeing where I'm going with this? If you're in the social circle, then there is no need to establish rapport or go on a few dates to see if she's "sure" about you. In effect, you have already eliminated a lot of the negativity that she would assume about you if you were some random guy. To be very straightforward with you guys, with the vast majority of the hot women I've attracted, slept with, and dated, I really didn't use any kind of game. Of course, I'd make the occasional funny remark, but that's about it. I was simply attractive and somewhat available. Think about this. When a woman is single, where does she turn to first and what does she ask? She turns to her friends, and she asks them if they know of any cute guys they can set them up with. And guess who's going to get mentioned first. You, provided that you are relatively attractive. Women only really turn towards the random guys on the street and in bars if they're really desperate and there are no available attractive men within their social circle. Of course, you can still win over a woman you meet in the streets and in bars, but like I said earlier, this is the difficult route. A smart man knows that the easiest route to the beautiful women is through common social circles. VK figured this out. The Peacemaker figured this out. And I figured this out when I first started talking to women. Almost all of our top notch women came from within a common social circle. So, how do you embed yourself within these "common" social circles? To be discussed in my next guide release...
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